Demystifying a classic Reddit post thread, Indian weddings are absurdly expensive and absurdly complicated, 2017 versus 2025
- Menaka Gupta
- Aug 25
- 2 min read
Back in 2017, a Reddit post went viral discussing how Indian families often spent a huge portion of their savings on their daughter’s wedding.
Times have changed—and for the better. As we step into 2025 (and beyond), Indian wedding planning looks very different than it did a few years ago.
Let’s break it down.
What Worked in 2017
In 2019, the wedding landscape for Indian families—especially those NRIs planning weddings in India—was very traditional:
One-Sided Expenses
Family-Driven Planning
Limited Vendor Access
Cross-Cultural Challenges
What Works in 2025& 2026
Fast forward to 2025, and the Indian wedding industry for NRIs has evolved in exciting ways:
Shared Expenses
Unmatched Access to Vendors
Planning Across Time Zones
Cross-Cultural Expertise
To meet these needs, I recently traveled through India’s Golden Triangle—Delhi, Agra, and Jaipur—to scout stunning venues and trusted vendors for destination Indian weddings specifically tailored for NRI couples.

Having lived in the U.S. for 20 years, I’ve seen firsthand the struggle of relying solely on friends and family for a big fat Indian wedding. In 2025, couples want more than just help—they want expertise, cultural sensitivity, and peace of mind.
Final Thoughts
Indian weddings are still grand and full of tradition, but the way they’re planned has changed dramatically. The focus is shifting from obligation and family pressure to shared responsibility and stress-free experiences.
If you’re an NRI planning an Indian wedding—whether in Delhi, Jaipur, Agra, or a dreamy destination like USA, Mexico, Italy, or the Caribbean—you deserve expert guidance.
Ready to plan your dream wedding stress-free?
At Work with Menaka LLC, we specialize in:✔ Destination weddings in India for NRIs✔ Luxury Indian weddings across the globe✔ Cross-cultural and interfaith wedding planning
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